Thursday, October 7, 2010

Better your today for a better tomorrow.

Well, as i write down , i don't really know what to talk about.I have a few topics like "Love For Photography" , "Trekking as a part of life" , "How i was a loser in school life!" , "How things changed.", "Meeting Spirituality" etc etc.. But all these topics on some other day :P:P:P
Today i am going to talk about living life.. Mind you , this is my point of view, if you already know how to live your own , don't go through this crap.


We all know the words that "Past gives us sorrows and the future gives us tensions.So live in the present".Generally we think of this as just a saying.Do we really follow this principle ?
Hardly anyone does.On the face , we are hiding the true self.Everyone is actually frustrated in their life in some or the other way.Being happy by having material things like having a nice car, a nice big house, having branded stuff is good but you know its just up to an extent. The real deal is that Are you happy or not internally?.Is the OUTER YOU and INNER YOU same ?So lets decide as we are reading this that we will try to find out who we actually are.What is it that really makes us happy.

Start by doing this.Whoever you meet everyday, make it a point that at the end of the conversation , say something good to that person.Make them feel better about themselves(Obviously not by false praise).In the conversation , actually hear what the person is saying and not just ponder thinking about something else. We all have this bad habit. By pleasing that person , you are actually spreading happiness.Also its important that you don't talk wrong about the person on his/her back.Its fun to gossip, but your best to stop doing that.(?)Instead , start having constructive conversations where you and the other person can learn new things.This way , it will help develop your brain, and also you as a person.I don't say you stop having fun.Obviously you should do anything you want just taking care that no one gets hurt.

Be spiritual for some part of the day.Mark my words , sooner or later you are going to realize that this is the only way ahead:P:P But there is time.. We have to enjoy,see a lot of stuff ;) There is no hurry. Being spiritual , you will start feeling positive about yourself and your surroundings.
There will be trouble in life.We have actually taken birth in this material world as a prisoner by our own choice.(Dokyavarun gela asel vakya tar sodun dya.) So we should have the right mindset to face the troubles.

Having a bad day , a bad week , feeling guilty about yourself is absolutely normal. 99% people around you have the same feeling. :P:P
Try diverting your mind .Like try to say ,explore your hobbies.For example , after so many years , i realized that i can sketch well (In my perspective of course lolz) .Start doing things that you haven't done before maybe because of fear of failure or fear in general.At the most , you will fail again , but you actually got nothing to lose!!!.In fact if you succeed then you can imagine the feeling you will have then :) :).I have a nice example for this one :- All those introvert guys out there like me, try having conversations more.Maybe you can do some homework and go out there.It is going to be difficult at the beginning but it will help.

Note :- There is nothing such as "Doing this,You will live happily ever after."Its just that you will tackle all the challenges in your life in a more controlled manner.
Life is too short.Experiment it to the fullest. And go, LIVE YOUR DREAMS.

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

I think I should start blogging now...
Yesss , ata ti vel aleli ahe ...hahaha